When is waiting the right/wrong decision?

over 8 years ago
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ledibyg (ledibyg)

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Many predictions, many months of anxiously waiting with very little results. No more readings just honest guidance of the spiritual benefit regarding waiting or moving on and doing what is best for yourself?

I have been on both sides, and regret both. But I want to see what others have to say.

over 8 years ago
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Heavenly Sunshine (heavenlyarchangel12)

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Waiting is something that can be very taxing, tiring, and in today’s times many people are struggling with multiple obstacles in life.

Patience is a virtue we all must learn. At times it can be difficult waiting for a job or waiting for a partner to change.

We rarely understand the dynamics of healing the Mind, soul, and body. Wounds from childhood and past relationships leave you wounded and other people are facing the same exact thing.

In some cases we are unaware of the severity of it, the deep soul searching, the life lessons that we must learn, and that takes time if someone is serious about it and does the inner work.

There are no short cuts in life. We must all learn the same lessons of love,patience, understanding, compassion, and empathy.

Is the person worth waiting for? What are their thinking patterns, habits, addictions, and are they trying to improve their life?

Moving on is usually when you feel you have had enough, you’ve done everything in your power and control, and find it is an unhealthy experience for you.

Usually we don’t move on until we’re done with what ever lesson we’re trying to learn from the experience.

over 8 years ago
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⚜ Count Marco ⚜ (countmarco)

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“Heavenly” those comments indeed are so very true! In addition to this I feel it is so very important to add to the equation a level of acceptance. If you can just try to “accept” that something is as it should be in this moment, understand that something will be developing on a higher level. Much as you think you know what is best for you, perhaps the true truth is that you actually do not. The second point really has to be about being in the “present” It exists now and must be used to maximum effect. Open up to all that the present is offering you right this moment, rather than always imagine that the future is where true happiness lies. This very “present” will soon serves as tomorrow’s memories. Do NOT allow all your memories to exist of “moments of waiting” Fill and pack the present now. Remember what it truly is. The “present” is exactly that – your GIFT NOW!

Be Blessed

Count Marco